扭轉對手成為合作者

任何人在工作場合中或多或少會有對手，例如，老闆總是拿走光彩，團隊里的同事破壞了事情，而你總是很困難去避開他們。 

然而，你可以用以下方法將這些對手轉化成你的合作支持者： 

1. 改變態度。先不要將你自己討厭你的對手的負面情緒擱在心上，而去想想你們彼此擁有的共同點，並且用一種新的角度去看待造成你們之間緊張的源頭可能是個合作機會的曙光。
2. 建立互惠。為你的對手做些好事，例如協助完成他的項目，或是分享一個重要的消息給他。如此，你能夠建立起可以請他給你互惠合作的機會。
3. 解釋不合作的壞處。對他說明，如果不合作的話，將會失去什麼機會。多數的人都會擔心失去機會的。

Turn your opponent into a collaborator

Anyone in the workplace is more or less an opponent, for example, the boss always takes the brilliance, and the colleagues in the team destroy things, and you are always difficult to avoid them.

However, you can transform these opponents into your partner supporters in the following ways.

1. Change your attitude. Don't put the negative emotions that you hate your opponent on your heart, and think about what you have in common, and looking at the source of tension between you in a new way may be the dawn of a cooperative opportunity.
2. The establishment of reciprocity. Do something good for your opponent, such as assisting in completing his project, or sharing an important message to him. In this way, you can set up an opportunity to ask him to give you reciprocal cooperation.
3. Explain the disadvantage of non-cooperation. He explained to him that if we did not cooperate, we would lose what opportunities. Most people are worried about losing their chances.