在聚會中做自己

即使是很外向的人，在會議中也會感到緊張。在很講究社交的環境中，也會出現很小的身份危機：我是誰？為什麼人家要和我說話？

不要擔心這些，就做你自己。

你不必刻意告訴別人你的姓名，你的職務抬頭，或是你曾就有過什麼著作。相對的，你也不用去在意別人的抬頭與地位，就將他們當成是一般人，也讓他們如此認識你。

當然，沒有立即介紹自己的角色會帶來一點緊張、侷促不安，但是你可以問一些輕鬆的問題，帶起話題，建立起彼此的親切感。你可以對與會者她在聚會上對什麼產生興趣，或是他是怎樣來到這個聚會場合的，或是他對聚會中哪一位出席者有特別的印象。

Do yourself at the party

Even outgoing people feel nervous at meetings. In a very social environment, there will be a small identity crisis: who am I? Why are people going to talk to me?

Don't worry about it, be yourself.

You do not have to deliberately tell others your name, your job title, or what books you have ever had. In contrast, you don't have to care about others' rise and status. They treat them as ordinary people and let them know you so well.

Of course, not introducing your role immediately brings a little nervousness and embarrassment, but you can ask some easy questions, bring up a topic, and build a sense of kindness to each other. You can be interested in how she is at a party, or how he comes to the party, or who is particularly impressed with which one of the parties at the party.