如何探知你指導的學員為“孺子不可教”？

如果指導了一名不願意接受指導的學員，最好的狀況就是自己有挫折，最糟的狀況，就是浪費了你的時間與精力。如果有這樣不成材的學員，你就不要硬充好漢來投資你的時間了。

以下的信號能夠讓你探知你的學員是否“孺子不可教”：

1. 他沒有問題。如果他不想改變，他就是不願意接受指導。不要浪費你的時間去告訴他去看到他自己的錯誤。
2. 他的工作職位不對。如果他不喜歡他現在的工作，感到不快樂，你再如何指導，都很難激發出他的學習動機。你應該在適當時機，協助他找到他有興趣的下一個工作。
3. 他對所有的人都抱怨。如果有人認為他自己的問題都是別人造成的，你是無法幫助他的。你應該去幫助那些願意承認自己的問題行為、願意接受你的指導的人。

How to guide the students to explore your "impossible to teach"?

If you instruct a student who does not want to receive guidance, the best thing is to have setbacks. The worst thing is to waste your time and energy. If you have such a poor student, you should not invest in your time.

The following signal can let you know of your students is impossible to educate":

1. He has no problem. If he doesn't want to change, he just won't accept guidance. Don't waste your time telling him to see his own mistakes.
2. His job is wrong. If he doesn't like his current job and feels unhappy, you can hardly motivate him to learn how to guide him. You should help him find the next job he is interested in at the right time.
3. He complained to all the people. If someone thinks that his own problems are caused by others, you can't help him. You should help people who are willing to admit their problem behaviors and accept your guidance.