改變別人對你的誤解

你是否曾經感覺別人對你的印象觀點，是錯誤的？這樣的誤解，會令人感到有挫折感。但是，我們仍然有機會改變自己的名譽

首先，先接受別人對自己有誤解的事實，接受他人對你有不同的觀點，向他們對你帶給他們負面觀點而表示歉意，然後，再來協助他們重新認識自己。

你可以從發現自己和對你有誤解的人可以有哪些有共識的領域，例如，你們也許有共同的興趣愛好。如此做，可以讓他們對你先建立起好感。

然後，你可以找出你們可以共同進行的一些活動，讓彼此有更多相互了解的機會。多做一些你認為有助於他們對你的主張能夠產生認同的努力。

當然，這些努力很可能需要你做出很大的改變，有些甚至和你平常的習慣、行為、語言是不同的，也有可能你經過了這些努力，仍然難以扭轉他人對你的負面觀點。

你要有耐心，多數人很難在一夜之間，就改變了自己的偏見。但是，在你努力的過程中，你也有機會重新認識自己，做出自己認為確實正確而有必要做出的自我調整。

Change people's misunderstanding of you

Have you ever felt that other people's impression of you is wrong? Such misunderstandings can be frustrating. But we still have a chance to change our reputation.

First, accept the fact that others have misunderstood you, accept that others have different opinions about you, apologize for the negative opinions they have brought to them, and then help them to re-recognize themselves.

You can find out what areas of consensus you can have with people who misunderstand you, for example, you may have common interests and hobbies. By doing so, they can build up a good feeling for you first.

Then you can find out some activities that you can do together to give each other more opportunities to understand each other. Make more efforts that you think will help them identify with your ideas.

Of course, these efforts are likely to require you to make great changes, some of which are different from your usual habits, behavior and language. It is also possible that after these efforts, it is still difficult to reverse other people's negative views of you.

If you have patience, it's hard for most people to change their prejudices overnight. However, in the course of your efforts, you also have the opportunity to re-recognize yourself and make self-adjustments that you think are correct and necessary.