有些人在Facebook上參加了數十個社團,建立了500,甚至上千名好友聯繫。但是,這麼廣大的人脈網,不見得對你有更多的幫助。
事實上,有這麼大量的好友人數,可能會傷害你的生活品質,你會吸收到無數的垃圾信息,或是對你的奇怪的要求,搞得你心煩意亂。
能夠經營好人脈網的成功人士,通常是與一些并不常與他緊密聯繫的人交往。你若是能夠與一些較少曝光,但是具有思想的人往來,你比較能夠聽到一些獨特的意見。如此,更能夠豐富你的知識,與發現新的發展機會。
不要將建立人脈網看成是參加爭取選票的活動。去發現那些真正能夠啟迪你思想的人。
Establishing a network of people, focusing on quality, not number
Some people have joined dozens of social groups on Facebook and established 500 or even thousands of friends. However, this vast network of contacts is not necessarily more helpful to you.
In fact, such a large number of friends may damage your quality of life, you will absorb countless junk information, or strange demands on you, make you upset.
Successful people who can run a good network usually associate with people who don't often have close ties with them. If you can interact with people who are less exposed but thoughtful, you will be able to hear some unique opinions. In this way, you can enrich your knowledge and discover new opportunities for development.
Don't think of networking as a campaign to win votes. Find out who really inspires you.
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