自尊與自信,過去一向被視為促使一個人能夠成功的基石。但是自尊與自信也經常不能如預期的能夠讓人成為精英。
想想看,你很棒(你確實如此),你有壓力要維護你的形象。但是,你可能時時刻刻擔心會犯錯,更糟糕的,當犯錯是,你會覺得滿目蒼夷的痛苦。
當你面對挑戰時,你不需要假裝自己有足夠的智慧來解決問題,你反而應該注意自己的缺點。
以謙卑的態度檢視自己的缺點,理解自己的能力局限。現實地看自己的能力,你能夠因此知道下一次應該如何面對問題,應該如何做。
以為自己是完美的人不能真的幫助你成功。但是知道如何避免再次犯錯,才能夠真正讓你成功。Forget Self-Esteem and Confidence, and You Need Humility
Self-esteem and
self-confidence have always been considered the cornerstones of a person's success,
but self-esteem and self-confidence are often not as good as expected.
Think about it, you
are great (you are), you have the pressure to maintain your image, but you may
always worry about making mistakes, and worse, when mistakes are made, you will
feel the pain of being everywhere.
When you face a
challenge, you don't need to pretend that you have enough wisdom to solve the
problem. Instead, you should pay attention to your own shortcomings.
Look at your
weaknesses in humility, understand your limitations, and realistically look at
your abilities, so you can know how you should face the problem and what you
should do next time.
A man who thinks he
is perfect does not really help you succeed, but knowing how to avoid making
mistakes again can really make you successful.
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