停止抱怨你的職業選擇決定

“我寧可不曾選擇這個行業。”“我應該早就辭職了。”老是抱怨你已經作的職業選擇決定，一點都不會令人愉快。

與其讓悔恨繼續折磨你，不如面對你的未來：

1. 請人提供意見。找一個你信任的朋友來討論，用不同眼光來檢討你的遺憾。選擇平常就充滿自信、有想象力、願意正面思考的人來討論，而不要找那些平常就憤世嫉俗、愛嘲諷的人。
2. 多作“假設情境”。用你得到的回饋意見，以新的角度來看你職業。例如，如果你遺憾你正在從事的公共關係工作，你也許可以這樣問自己：如果我為了一個我願意支持的理由來從事這份公共關係工作，會如何？
3. 找到可以讓你作下去的點子。將你的“假設情境”想得更深入一些。如果你因此而開始覺得興奮起來，繼續下去，直到實現你的想法。

Stop complaining about your career choices

"I'd rather not choose this business," I said. "I should have quit my job." It's never pleasant to complain about your career decisions.

It's better to confront your future than to let it continue to torment you:

1. Ask for giving advice. Find a trusted friend to discuss, with different perspective to review your regret. Choose usually confident, imaginative, willing to positive thinking people to discuss, and don't find those common people who love to detest the world and its ways.
2. Do scenario assumptions. Get feedback with a new perspective of your occupation. For example, if you're sorry you are engaged in public relations work, maybe you can ask yourself: If I would like to support a reason to engage in this public relations work, how about it?
3. Find ideas that will support you to continue. Think about your hypothetical situation more deeply. If you start to feel excited about it, keep going until you realize what you think.