在當今的社會與企業中,建立好品質的人脈,對於個人的精進發展是很重要的。但是,有太多的人浪費了時間在建立對自己無效的人際關係。
那麼,應該如何找到對自己有幫助的人脈呢?
- 分析。想想在和你互動交往的人,你究竟能夠從他學習或得到什麼?記住,你要的是人際關係的品質,而非人數。
- 疏離。顯然,並非在你的人脈網中,並非每個人都能夠對你有益。你要做出斷然的決定來疏離這些人,避免總是有一些功能太過類似、重複性的人,他們會消耗你太多的精力。
- 多樣化。你的人脈網中應該有不同性質的人,讓他們提供給你不同的觀點與經驗。而你應該關注在哪些能夠分享如何促進你達到目標的人脈上。
How to improve your network?
In
today's society and enterprises, it is very important to establish a good
quality network for personal development. But too many people waste their time
building relationships that are ineffective for them.
So, how should we find a helpful network for ourselves?
- Analysis. Think about the people you interact with. What can you learn from them or get from them? Remember, you need the quality of your relationships, not the number of people.
- Alienation. Obviously, not everyone in your network can benefit you. You have to make a decisive decision to alienate these people and avoid people who are too similar and repetitive in their functions, and they will consume too much of your energy.
- Diversification. Your network should have people of different qualities who can offer you different perspectives and experiences. And you should focus on the people who can share how to help you achieve your goals.
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