改變你的侵犯行為

有些人的行為一向粗魯，對其他人構成侵犯威脅。這是個壞行為，但是他卻會說：“我的天性就是這樣！”一副蠻橫。

如果你也是如此，確實應該改變了。怎麼做？

1. 了解別人怎麼看你。你自己可能不自覺你自己的最大毛病是什麽。去詢問你最信任的同事或朋友，讓他告訴你，他與你相處遇到的最大麻煩是什麽。請仔細聆聽，而不要做辯解、或解釋。
2. 用其他的方式表現。下次你若是感覺你會再冒犯到別人，你會用什麽其他方式表現？你可以向你的同事或同儕承諾你以後將有所不同。
3. 付出代價。你可以承諾如果你再次犯錯，你情願受罰。雖然如此將讓你付出代價，但是這是對你有益的。

Change your aggression

Some people act rudely and pose a threat to other people. It was a bad thing, but he would say, "That's my nature." A bunch of insolence.

If you do too, you really should change. How do you do it?

1. Know what others think of you. You may not be conscious of yourself. What is your greatest weakness? Ask your most trusted colleague or friend, and let him tell you what the biggest trouble he has with you. Please listen carefully without making excuses or explanations.
2. Behave in other ways. The next time you feel you're going to offend someone else, what else will you do? You can promise your colleagues or peers that you will be different later.
3. Pay the price. You can promise that if you make a mistake again, you are willing to be punished. Even so, it will cost you, but it's good for you.