完美主義者通常不會像他自己想象中的完美,他通常會讓他周遭的人感覺他很會浪費大家的時間。
然而,做個凡事吹毛求疵者,並非全然是不好的,他仍然能夠做出有價值的貢獻。
關鍵在於你在追求完美價值時,能夠建立起大家可以達到的標準,讓大家明白你真正關切的重點是什麼。例如,你能夠指出會構成傷害的因素有哪些。
在作為完美主義者的過程中,讓大家能夠注意到缺失,引導大家改進。Practice being a perfectionist
A
perfectionist is not always as perfect as he thinks he is. He usually makes people
around him feel like he's wasting everyone's time.
However,
to be a critic is not entirely bad, but he can still make a worthwhile
contribution.
The
key is that when you pursue perfect values, you can build standards that you
can reach and let you know what your real concerns are. For example, you can
point out what factors contribute to the injury.
In the process of being a perfectionist, let people notice the lack and
guide them to improve.
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