在工作中有朋友對你的參與度和工作效率有好處。但是,當你準備升職的時候,你會怎麼做,這也是工作朋友想要的?
- 退後一步,瞭解一些情况。提醒你自己,這只是你職業生涯中眾多晋昇中的一個。
- 記住,友誼可能比誰有什麼工作更重要。和你的朋友談談情况,消除任何存在的緊張情緒。要清楚,你不想讓晋昇影響你的關係。
- 檢查一下你的自我價值感。晋昇可能是武斷和主觀的;决定並不總是關於誰更適合這份工作,甚至可能歸結到你無法控制的因素。想一想,如果升職沒有按你的作法進行,你會有什麼反應,這樣你就可以準備好迎接接下來發生的一切。
Having friends at work is good for your participation and efficiency. But what do you do when you're ready for a promotion, which is what your working friends want?
- Step back and get some information. Remind yourself that this is just one of many promotions in your career.
- Remember, friendship may be more important than who has what job. Talk to your friends about the situation and eliminate any tension. Make it clear that you don't want promotion to affect your relationship.
- Check your sense of self-worth. Promotion may be arbitrary and subjective; decisions are not always about who is better suited for the job, or even factors beyond your control. Think about how you'll react if your promotion doesn't go your way, so you're ready for what happens next.
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