當同事騎到你頭上時，保持冷靜

當你發現你的同事越過你，騎到你頭上和老闆直接對話，你會很氣惱。不僅是因為你被排除在和老闆的對話，而且可能他會弄得你很難堪。當有人越過你時，你能夠怎麼說、怎麼做呢？

你應該退一步來評估你究竟知道了什麼。查明清楚事實，而不要胡亂做判斷與批評。

你是否可能誤會了？如果你不知道究竟發生了什麼，就去弄清楚。

你可以問你的老闆：“我聽說小張提出了一個新點子，是否有任何我需要知道的嗎？”你必須以輕鬆而不會被質疑的語調向老闆提問，不要被認為你準備挑起一場口角鬥爭。

你也可以私下問你的同事，聽聽他向老闆說了什麼，以及他做了什麼，他說的內容是否與你有關？

一旦你有了所有的資訊，你就可以做出合理的判斷，知道你以後該如何對應。

Stay calm when your colleagues ride on your head

When you find your colleagues cross you and ride on your head and talk directly to your boss, you get angry. It's not only because you're excluded from the conversation with the boss, and maybe he'll embarrass you. What can you say and do when someone passes you?

You should take a step back and evaluate what you know. Find out the facts, rather than making random judgments and criticisms.

Are you likely to misunderstand? If you don't know what's going on, just figure it out.

You can ask your boss: "I hear that 小張 has come up with a new idea. Is there anything I need to know?" You have to ask your boss questions in a relaxed, non- questioning tone, and don't think you're ready to engage in a quarrel.

You can also ask your colleagues in private, listen to what he said to his boss, and what he did, and what he said is relevant to you

Once you have all the information, you can make a reasonable judgment and know how you should deal with it later.