正確看待失敗

我痛恨【失敗為成功之母】的說法。

這不僅是因為這樣的說法通常只是安慰自己去接受失敗的藉口，更現實的是，失敗很少會指引你如何才會成功。

這並不是說我是很苛刻的不能允許失敗的發生。事實上，我也接受在改革發展的過程中，失敗的機率是很高的，甚至是很難避免的。

真正要關注的是，你是否會因為承認了失敗的必然性，而輕易的放棄了想要達成的大目標。

你應該對發生失敗的可能原因，抱持更大的戒心。因為，任何一次的失敗，都代表了浪費了你寶貴的時間與資源，會減少讓你達到真正成功的機率，拖延了時間。

因此，你應該儘可能事先努力做好規劃與準備，避免輕率的行動。

你應該把握住每次的失敗給予的教訓與學習的機會，改進你的洞察力，避免重複發生類似失敗的可能性。

尊重失敗，才是你必勝的關鍵鎖鑰。

Look at failure correctly

I hate the claim that failure is the mother of success.

This is not only because such a statement is usually an excuse for comforting oneself to accept defeat, but more realistically, failure rarely guides you how to succeed.

This is not to say that I am very strict and can not allow failure to happen. In fact, I also accept that in the course of reform and development, the probability of failure is very high, or even very difficult to avoid.

The real concern is whether you will easily give up the big goal you want to achieve because you acknowledge the inevitability of failure.

You should be more vigilant about possible causes of failure. Because any failure represents a waste of your precious time and resources, which will reduce your chances of achieving real success and delay your time.

Therefore, you should make every effort to plan and prepare as far as possible so as to avoid reckless action.

You should grasp the lessons and learning opportunities of every failure, improve your insight and avoid the possibility of repeated failures.

Respect for failure is the key to your victory.