沒有人喜歡被人說是自私的人。被人看成是自私的人，則會妨礙到你的職場發展。
但是，你會被人看為是自私的人，不一定是因為你是刻薄的人，而可能是你因為你沒有給予足夠關心，沒有用足夠的時間來思考別人的目標與意見。
你只要有自覺，就可以開始成為一名體貼的人。
在辦公室里，你可以觀察同事的肢體語言，注意他的臉部表情，以及情緒信號。在網絡交流上，你可以不要急著表達自己的意見，而多以好奇的態度來問對話的對象。“你為何這樣想？”、“你的感覺如何？”
當你願意用別人的眼光來看事情，你會發現不僅比較能夠達成共識，你的人際關係也會跟著改善了。
How to be considerate to your colleagues?
How to be considerate to your colleagues?
No
one likes to be said to be selfish. Being regarded as a selfish person will
impede the development of your workplace.
However,
you may be perceived as
selfish, not
necessarily because you are a mean person, and you may be because you have not
given enough attention, not enough time to think about goals and opinions of
others.
As
long as you have the self - consciousness, you can start to become a
considerate person.
In
the office, you can observe the colleague's attention to his body language,
facial expressions, and emotional signals. In the network communication, you
can not anxious to express their
views, and more to the curious attitude to ask dialogue objects. "Why do
you think so?", "How do you feel?"
When you are willing to look at things with other people's eyes, you will find that not only are you more likely to reach consensus, but also your relationships will be improved.
When you are willing to look at things with other people's eyes, you will find that not only are you more likely to reach consensus, but also your relationships will be improved.
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