如何向人提出請求幫忙？

在一生當中，我們經常説明別人，或是需要他人説明。例如，幫朋友訂個餐廳包廂，或是介紹一個客戶給他。

但是，請朋友幫個大忙，可是件艱巨的事。你總要設法回報的。

下次，當你需要他人提供幫忙時，試試用以下的步驟：

1. 隱喻回報。直接了當的說出你的請求，例如：【我想請你幫個忙】這樣說，隱喻了你會改天找個機會給予回報。
2. 說明理由。人們通常希望知道你為什麼要他幫忙，說:【請你幫我出席下午的業務會議】，不如說:【請你幫我出席下午的業務會議，因為恰好下午有個客戶臨時來訪。】
3. 給對方台階下。沒有人喜歡被強迫提供幫助。你可以這樣說：【如果你不方便，我可以理解】，或是說：【我明白你很忙】。

How to ask for help?

In life, we often explain others or need others to explain. For example, book a restaurant box for a friend or introduce a customer to him.

But it's hard to ask a friend for a big help. You always try to get something back.

Next time you need help, try the following steps:

1. Metaphorical reward. Speaking directly about your request, for example, [I want to ask you a favor], is a metaphor that you will find another day to give back.
2. Explain the reasons. People usually want to know why you want his help and say, [Please help me attend the business meeting in the afternoon], rather, [Please help me attend the business meeting in the afternoon, because it happens that a client comes to visit me temporarily in the afternoon. ]
3. Give each other a step. No one likes being forced to help. You can say, [I can understand if it's inconvenient to you], or, [I understand you're busy].