如何確認你的獨特技能？

任何人都有至少一項具破壞性的技能，這是一種讓我們可以明顯區別於他人的獨特能力。你可能自己已經長久知道自己的這樣獨特能力，也可能你一直不知覺它的存在。那麼，你如何確認你的獨特技能呢？

1. 注意自己是如何做到的？你可能已經太過熟練運用你的獨特能力，以至於你甚至忽略了它的實際運作形式了。問你自己：當我運用這樣的獨特技能時，它通常是如何運作的？有什麼既定的形式或模式？
2. 它的獨特性是怎樣的？一個獨特的技能通常會和別人運作的形式不同，那麼， 具體的差別是什麼？
3. 別人是如何評論它的？。你的同事、上司、下屬，甚至是你的家人，都是你的鏡子，聽聽他們通常是如何評論你的特殊技能。你自己認同嗎？或是，你會發現你自認的特殊性，別人並不這麼感覺。你只是在自我幻想中。

How do you identify your unique skills?

Everyone has at least one disruptive skill, a unique ability that makes us clearly different from others. You may have known for yourself your own unique abilities, or you may have never been aware of it. Well, how do you identify your unique skills?

1. Pay attention to how you do it. You may be too proficient in using your unique abilities so that you may even ignore the actual form of operation. Ask yourself: How does it usually work when I use this unique skill? What are the established forms or patterns?
2. What is unique about it? A unique skill usually differs from the way others operate, so what exactly is the difference?
3. How do others comment on it? Your colleagues, bosses, subordinates, and even your family are your mirrors and listen to how they usually comment on your special skills. Do you agree with yourself? Or, you will find the special nature of your own identity, others do not feel this way. You're just being in your fantasies.