讓你的職場發展期待和家人相符

父母、愛人對待孩子、配偶會有期待。這很正常。你可以嘗試讓他們對你的期待引導你安排職業發展。也許你的職業選擇會令他們失望。例如，你若是選擇到另外一個城市工作，他們也許會感覺你拋棄了他們。

這些是真實的顧慮。許多時候我們會以為自己了解家人，家人也會理解我們，然而事實上并不一定如此。

因此，你可以寫下哪些是對你重要的，然後與你的家人分享討論。這樣做，可以了解他們對你的期待和需求，以及他們可以支持的程度。

Let your career expectations match your family

Parents, children, spouses will have expectation to you. This is normal. You can try to get their expectation to guide you to arrange occupation development. Maybe your occupation choice will disappoint them. For example, if you choose to work in another city, they may feel you abandoned them.

These are real concerns. Many times we think we know our families, and our families understand us, but that's not necessarily the case.
So you can write down what's important to you, and then share and discuss with your family. You can learn about what they expect and need from you, and how much they can support.