當你有一個永無休止的待辦事項清單時,很容易對自己沒有完成的事情感到內疚。但內疚是有用的,它會激勵你做更多的事情-它不應該讓你感到羞愧。
當他們出現時,要緩解這些情緒,鍛煉自己的同情心。想像一下,你會對一個朋友感到難過,因為他在一些項目上落後了。你可能會告訴你的朋友不要那麼擔心,所以可以告訴自己同樣的話。
你也可以通過專注於你能完成的事情來讓自己感覺更好。除了你的待辦事項清單外,還保留一份“完成清單”,這樣你就可以提醒自己過去的工作。永遠記住:無論你是否為此感到愧疚,你明天要做的所有工作都會在那裡。因此,放鬆自己,放鬆一下,盡力而為。We’re All Behind at Work. Don’t Feel Guilty About It
When
you have a never-ending to-do list, it’s easy to feel guilty about what you
haven’t finished. But guilt is useful only when it motivates you to get more
done — it shouldn’t make you feel ashamed.
To
ease these kinds of emotions when they arise, exercise self-compassion. Imagine
what you’d say to a friend who felt bad for being behind on a few projects.
Chances are you’d tell your friend not to worry about it so much — so tell
yourself the same thing.
You
can also make yourself feel better by focusing on what you have been able to
accomplish. Keep a “done list” in addition to your to-do list, so you can
remind yourself of past work. And always remember: All that work you have to do
will be there tomorrow, whether you feel guilty about it or not. So cut
yourself some slack, take a breath, and just do your best.
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