當你試圖解决與同事的衝突時，會面的地點會影響你雙方是否能够暢所欲言，表達任何情感，並達成決議。
選擇一個雙方都能夠感到舒服的地點。理想的情况下，你希望是在一個可以私下談話的地方。也許你可以選擇一個看來對雙方都舒適的會議室，或是到附近的咖啡廳來見面。或者你們可以到外面走走，換個風景。
避免選擇給你或你的同事具有個別優勢地方。例如，如果你請他進入到你熟悉而且你可以坐在你的桌子後面來展現你的權力優勢，就會讓他感覺侷促不安，反之亦然。若是你選擇在辦公室某個地方，小心隔墻有耳。
Choose A Right Place for Sensitive Discussions
When you try to resolve
a conflict with your colleagues, the location of the meeting will affect
whether you can speak freely, express any emotion, and reach a resolution.
It’s better to
arrange a place both sides feel comfortable. Ideally, you would like to be in a place can take a private conversation. Maybe you can choose a meeting room where both feel comfortable, or a nearby cafe to meet. Or you can go out for a walk, a change of scenery.
Avoid to arrange to let either you or your colleague can take personal advantages. For example, if you invite him into your personal office where you are sitting behind your table and showing
your power advantage, will
let him feel embarrassed, and vice versa. If you choose a place in the office,
b be aware of eavesdroppers.
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