當你和你一起工作的人討厭你的時候，你可能會認為他們最壞——你的行為也會表現出這種心態。但對同事還是要有禮貌，甚至富有同情心，這是因為很多工作都是合作的，因為同事可能不會故意打擾你。
儘量減少你對他們的反應，讓自己做寫好事或說些好聽的話。
例如，你可以稱讚他們在會議中提出的一個想法，或者提願意出幫助某個項目。不要抱怨或揚起你的眼睛，不要被動地攻擊別人，比如說：“歡迎你加入我們。”（這可能是你的本能，但這隱含了你的不快態度。而你可以說：“來，一起喝杯咖啡，我們會讓你加快速度。” 這種慷慨的精神對你和你的同事都有好處。Be kind to those who annoy you
When you work with people who
hate you, you may think they are the worst - your behavior will show this
mindset. But be polite to your colleagues, or even compassionate, because a lot
of work is co-operative because your colleagues may not deliberately bother
you.
Try to minimize your reaction
to them and make yourself do good deeds or say nice things.
For example, you can
compliment an idea they put forward at the meeting, or offer to help a project.
Do not complain or raise your eyes, do not passively attack others, for
example, "Welcome to join us." This may be your instinct, but it
implies your displeasure. And you can say, Ccome and have a cup of coffee
together, we will speed you up." This generous spirit is good for you and
your colleagues.
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