許多人在向人表示感激時，總是會說因為得到幫助，自己有多麼快樂幸福，例如說：“因為你的幫助，我輕鬆了許多。”，或是：“我太高興了。”
但是，幫助你的人，固然會樂意看到你的困難得到解決了，但是他們也會希望你了解到他花了多少工夫來幫助你，你也同樣的關切到他，以及你認知肯定了他的價值。
所以，你在獲得幫助后，除了讓他知道你的困難解決了，也應該讚美他，例如：“你做了一件很棒的事，你運用的方式真的很有效。”，“你實在擅長處理…”如此做，可以強化你和這個人的關係。
When expressing
gratitude, don’t always talk about yourself
When
many people express their gratitude to others, they always say how happy they are because of
their help. For example, "I feel a lot easier because of your help."
or, "I'm so happy."
However,
those who help you will be glad to see that your difficulties are solved, but
they will also want you to know how much time he has spent to help you. You are
also concerned about him, and you have recognized his value.
So,
you get help, but let him know that you are difficult to solve, should also praise him, for example: "You did a good job, you use the way really effective." "You're really good at dealing with..." By doing so, you can strengthen your relationship with this person.
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