有的時候,我們不免以言語或是行為攻擊別人,造成對他人的不愉快,甚至造成了傷害。有的人會辯解:【這就是我的性格!】你或許不是故意的,但是,這是很不好的習慣。
怎麼改正自己的壞脾氣呢?
- 想想別人會怎麼看你?你也許不知道自己有什麼壞習慣。找個信得過的同事,問問他和你一起共事,會有什麼困難?你什麼樣的行為或言語會讓他感到難堪?仔細聽,不要回應,也不要辯解。
- 換個方式。下次你要激怒時,換個方式表現。請答應你的同事,你不會再犯錯,你會用其他方式處理狀況。
- 承諾付出代價。承諾如果你再次犯錯的話,你答應付出代價。
Sometimes,
we can not help but attack others with words or deeds, causing unhappiness to
others, even causing harm. Some people will argue that this is my character.
You may not be deliberate, but it's a bad habit.
How to
correct your bad temper?
- What do people think of you? You may not know what bad habits you have. Ask a trusted colleague and ask him what difficulties he will have to work with you. What kind of actions or words do you embarrass him? Listen carefully, do not respond, do not excuse.
- Another way. Next time you are angry, do it differently. Please promise your colleagues that you will not make any mistakes again, and you will handle the situation in other ways.
- Promise to pay the price. Promise that if you make a mistake again, you promise to pay the price.
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